I’ve seen these types of post before, and it’s usually advice in general but I wanted to give a little advice to my younger self or anyone reading this who is going through what I went through as a teenager / younger adult.
A – Apologize when you’re wrong or misspeak. It’s not always easy and sometimes you really won’t think you have something to apologize for. If it’s a few days later, don’t be afraid to admit that you were wrong and that you’re sorry.
B – Believe in yourself. You are going to do amazing things and you can do it. I know, it’s so damn hard and it doesn’t seem possible but everything is possible if you try. Believe in yourself and let your mind run wild with dreams and goals. If you don’t believe in yourself, then no one else can.
C – Call them. Pick up your phone and call that friend you haven’t from in awhile. Pick up the phone and call someone just to say “hi”. They won’t always call you, so do it.
D – Delete the people from your life that don’t make you happy. Delete them from social media, their contact, their text messages. It’s okay to not what to have someone in your life.
E – Except the unexcepted.
F – Friendships are hard to keep as y’all get older. There are going to be the friends that you’ll keep forever but there are some that won’t be around for a lifetime. People grow up, you change, your life changes and one day, without even realizing it, you aren’t friends anymore. It’s life.
G – Give more then you take. But don’t let someone take advantage of that kindness.
H – Hug your loved ones, you never know when it may be the last time. Heaven isn’t close, and it hurts when you don’t know it’s the last time.
I – Intelligence isn’t always the key, you can be smart in so many other ways other than books.
J – Joke around, laugh loudly, be yourself and don’t let someone tell you who you aren’t.
K – Kill them with kindness.
L – Love yourself proudly. Let yourself find happiness in the love that you feel for yourself and don’t be afraid to say it. You have to love yourself.
M – Money is stressful. Either you have to much or you have to little. Learn to live in the moment and be okay with where you are financial. Even if that place isn’t good.
O – Open yourself up to the possibility of life not being what you planned. Allow change to happen and roll with the punches.
P – Plants are never going to be your thing, it’s okay.
Q – Quit excepting everyone else to do the most. Quit excepting everyone else to be there for you. Do it for yourself, and be there for yourself.
R – Rain will come and go, so will those emotions that your feeling at this moment. Don’t act on the feelings that you are feeling right now. Sit down, take a breath, have a glass of wine, sleep for eight hours and then if you still feel that way, act on it. Chances are you probably won’t feel the same way you did because you’ve had the chance to take a breath and think it through. It’ll be okay.
S – Sunshine is the best medicine, but please wear sunscreen. You burn girl.
T – Time isn’t going to stop, you can’t get the time you spent mad back. But you can make the most of every moment you have.
U – Unquie isn’t a bad thing, it’s a good thing. Be unique and be proud of that.
V – Volume is great in your hair, in music, in the ac but not in your attitude.
W – Wash it out in the wash, your problems, your troubles, your heartake, your worries. Everything comes out in the wash.
X – Words that start with X are mostly drugs, so… DON’T DO DRUGS.
Y – Young love is love, it’s real and it matters. But it’s also not always going to last, it’s okay to walk away, even if only for long enough for y’all to grow up.
Z – Zack Hart, I love you. ❤
Love, Megan Anne
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